Relax uri comparison

[sdorra]

Ensure that http, https and ssh urls without port treated as the same if the default port is included in the url.
Credentials, query parameters and hash urls are ignored for the equality check.
This should fix sending of notifications in which the source url does not contain the port, but the scm url contains a default port.

JENKINS-67588

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