build: Debug bump s3fs

[merelcht]

Description

Attempt to solve issues with tests in:

• build(datasets): upgrade s3fs to newer calver #348
• build: Experiment aws patching #458

The problem that surfaced in #348 is described here: aio-libs/aiobotocore#755 Lots of people have provided patches, so I have used one of the most up to date ones and it seems to work almost perfectly.

Development notes

Tests that are still broken and have been commented out for the time being:

• tests/dask/test_parquet_dataset.py test_pass_credentials
• tests/spark/test_spark_dataset.py test_no_version

Checklist

• Opened this PR as a 'Draft Pull Request' if it is work-in-progress
• Updated the documentation to reflect the code changes
• Added a description of this change in the relevant RELEASE.md file
• Added tests to cover my changes

[noklam]

This looks fine to me. We either need to mock the response or use "moto server" ( see s3fs tests]. Since this is just unit tests problem (s3fs works regardless of versions, the problem is the interaction with moto), I am happy to proceed with this.

[merelcht]

Closing in favour of #463