Add the ability to set watch timeouts.

Allow setting shorter watch timeout for the firt time alone.

What this PR does / why we need it:
We have seen in some evnironments (where requests are tunnelled) setting up the (first) watch is blocking if there are no resources available to watch. This causes the apply loop to be blocked when setting up watches before apply.

pkg/patterns/declarative/pkg/watch/dynamic.go

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@ limitations under the License.
 package watch
 
 import (
+	"atomic"
 	"context"
 	"fmt"
 	"sync"
@@ -35,8 +36,19 @@ import (
 	"sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/log"
 )
 
+var (
+	// WatchActivityTimeout sets a timeout for a Watch activity  under normal operation
+	WatchActivityTimeout = 300 * time.Second
+	// WatchActivityFirstTimeout sets a timeout for Watch activity in an Apply path
+	// We expect the author to set this to a lower value in environments where it makes sense.
+	// func (r *Reconciler) SetupWithManager(mgr ctrl.Manager) error { ... 	watch.WatchActivityFirstTimeout = 10 * time.Second ... }
+	WatchActivityFirstTimeout = 300 * time.Second
+)
+
+const (
 // WatchDelay is the time between a Watch being dropped and attempting to resume it
-const WatchDelay = 30 * time.Second
+ WatchDelay = 30 * time.Second
+)
 
 // NewDynamicWatch constructs a watcher for unstructured objects.
 // Deprecated: avoid using directly; will move to internal in future.
@@ -138,13 +150,44 @@ type clientObject struct {
 //
 // [1] https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/54878#issuecomment-357575276
 func (w *dynamicKindWatch) watchUntilClosed(ctx context.Context, eventTarget metav1.ObjectMeta, watchStarted *sync.WaitGroup) {
+	var sawActivity atomic.Bool
+
 	log := log.FromContext(ctx)
 
 	options := w.FilterOptions
 	// Though we don't use the resource version, we allow bookmarks to help keep TCP connections healthy.
 	options.AllowWatchBookmarks = true
 
-	events, err := w.resource.Watch(context.TODO(), options)
+	activityTimeout := WatchActivityTimeout
+	if watchStarted != nil {
+		activityTimeout = WatchActivityFirstTimeout
+	}
+	ctx, cancel := context.WithCancel(ctx)
+	defer cancel()
+	// Check for events periodically
+	ticker := time.NewTicker(activityTimeout)
+	defer ticker.Stop()
+	sawActivity.Store(false)
+
+	go func() {
+		for {
+			select {
+			case <-ctx.Done():
+				return
+			case <-ticker.C:
+				if !sawActivity.Load() {
+					log.WithValues("kind", w.GVK.String()).WithValues("namespace", w.FilterNamespace).WithValues("labels", options.LabelSelector).Info("no activity seen for a while, cancelling watch")
+					cancel()
+					return
+				}
+				sawActivity.Store(false)
+			}
+		}
+	}()
+
+	events, err := w.resource.Watch(ctx, options)
+	sawActivity.Store(true)	
+
 	if watchStarted != nil {
 		watchStarted.Done()
 	}
@@ -159,6 +202,7 @@ func (w *dynamicKindWatch) watchUntilClosed(ctx context.Context, eventTarget met
 	defer events.Stop()
 
 	for clientEvent := range events.ResultChan() {
+		sawActivity.Store(true)
 		switch clientEvent.Type {
 		case watch.Bookmark:
 			// not an object change, we ignore it