[release-0.10] Fix: kueue-manager-role can not update topologies

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #3910

/assign tenzen-y

Fix the permission bug which prevented adding the `kueue.x-k8s.io/resource-in-use` finalizer to the Topology objects, resulting in repeatedly logged errors.

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[tenzen-y]

/lgtm
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[mimowo]

/release-note-edit

Fix the permission bug which prevented adding the `kueue.x-k8s.io/resource-in-use` finalizer to the Topology objects, resulting in repeatedly logged errors.

[mimowo]

/kind bug