Add kwargs to pass to docker container that runs the Jupyter Server

[rahulAira]

Why are these changes needed?

Adding the ability to pass kwargs to docker container that runs the jupyter server helps in getting more control over the container like limiting it's compute resources, mounting volumes etc.

Related issue number

"Closes #3027"

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[nomagicln]

I think containers additional arguments should be single argument like container_kwargs rather than kwargs @rahulAira

[jackgerrits]

I agree, this arg should be named more specifically. Would you like to update this PR @rahulAira?