add neon_local subcommand for the broker & use that from regression tests

[problame]

There's currently no way to just start/stop broker from neon_local.

This PR

• adds a sub-command
• uses that sub-command from the test suite instead of the pre-existing Python subprocess based approach.

Found this useful during investigation https://github.com/neondatabase/cloud/issues/16886.

[github-actions]

5082 tests run: 4908 passed, 0 failed, 174 skipped (full report)

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Flaky tests (9)

Postgres 17

• test_scrubber_physical_gc[4]: debug-x86-64, release-arm64

Postgres 16

• test_ondemand_wal_download_in_replication_slot_funcs: release-x86-64
• test_multi_attach: release-x86-64
• test_replica_start_scan_clog_crashed_xids: release-arm64
• test_scrubber_physical_gc[4]: release-arm64

Postgres 15

• test_scrubber_physical_gc[4]: release-arm64

Postgres 14

• test_ondemand_wal_download_in_replication_slot_funcs: release-x86-64
• test_pull_timeline[True]: release-arm64

Code coverage* (full report)

• functions: 31.8% (7415 of 23302 functions)
• lines: 49.8% (59591 of 119749 lines)

* collected from Rust tests only

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5c2acb7 at 2024-09-17T22:31:38.391Z :recycle:}

[yliang412]

Looks good. I believe CI only runs if the merge conflict is resolved.

[bayandin]

LTGM if tests pass 😄
Do we want to run benchmarks to see if there're ok?