fix(tf): pass type_one_side & exclude_types to DPTabulate in `s…

…e_r` (deepmodeling#4446)

Fix deepmodeling#4445.

* Modify `DPTabulate` instance creation to include `self.type_one_side`
and `self.exclude_types`

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
- Enhanced configurability for the `DescrptSeR` class, allowing users to
customize compression behavior with new parameters.
- Introduced optional parameters for improved management of atom types
and interactions during the embedding process.
  
- **Bug Fixes**
- Added validation for excluded types to ensure proper handling within
the compression logic.

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deepmd/tf/descriptor/se_r.py

@@ -356,6 +356,8 @@ def enable_compression(
             self.filter_neuron,
             graph,
             graph_def,
+            type_one_side=self.type_one_side,
+            exclude_types=self.exclude_types,
             activation_fn=self.filter_activation_fn,
             suffix=suffix,
         )