This commit updates __init__.py with changes that were made directly
in Node.js (sorry about this but at the time I was not aware that there
this upstream repo existed).

It includes changes from two commits in Node.js:
 Commit f4bd91b0e2d7f07365ccf6bba943ba97d6f95cc9 ("deps,build,
tools: fix openssl-is-fips for ninja builds) and
Commit 66da32c045035cf2710a48773dc6f55f00e20c40 ("deps,test,src,doc,
tools: update to OpenSSL 3.0")

Refs: nodejs/node#40735