tls: wrap ssl errors in ECONNRESET

[Uzlopak]

For discussion.

I think we should not break userland, by passing the OpenSSL Errors directly to userland. IMHO they need to be wrapped accordingly.

This PR is not passing all tests and is for demonstration purposes.

Especially notifying:
@mcollina
@RafaelGSS
@nodejs/undici

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.33%. Comparing base (7c76fa0) to head (be1f3f9).
Report is 10 commits behind head on main.

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Files	Coverage Δ
lib/_tls_wrap.js	93.37% <100.00%> (-0.02%)	⬇️
lib/internal/errors.js	94.44% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 37 files with indirect coverage changes