feat: Adjust allowed error codes for detecting node:sqlite

[xconverge]

I am not really sure how to write a test for this...

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Rationale

This was a bit too restrictive for how big of a failure it can lead to

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Bug Fixes

Fixes #3899

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[metcoder95]

cc: @flakey5

[mcollina]

I have absolutely no clue, because that require/import always throw that error code from Node.js core. Something, something is 100% off on your end due to some monkeypatching one of your dependencies is making.

I recommend we drop the if-check completely.

[metcoder95]

@xconverge you mentioned PM2, I'd advice opening at their project

[xconverge]

@mcollina in the stack trace for the issue you can see that https://www.npmjs.com/package/require-in-the-middle is used by pm2, so yes there is definitely some monkey patching going on. I agree the if check should be dropped completely.

@metcoder95 see my message above, I do realize that this is related to pm2 specifically, but I don't think undici should be failing catastropically here for an optional/experimental feature check when we could just skip it and keep going. I am not even sure I agree that an issue needs to be opened with pm2 and/or require-in-the-middle, I think that this check should be less strict for greater compatibility

[mcollina]

lgtm