NSFS | MPU | Disable ctime check on load_multipart()

[romayalon]

Explain the changes

Background -
Checking ctime on the upload id directory does not make sense because for a directory, ctime changes when any of its attributes or contents (like adding or removing files) are modified.

For instance -

> mkdir my_dir/
> stat -s my_dir/
st_dev=16777231 st_ino=39137529 st_mode=040755 st_nlink=2 st_uid=501 st_gid=20 st_rdev=0 st_size=64 st_atime=1718816608 st_mtime=1718816608 st_ctime=1718816608 st_birthtime=1718816608 st_blksize=4096 st_blocks=0 st_flags=0
> echo "obj1 content" >  my_dir/obj1.txt
> stat -s my_dir/
st_dev=16777231 st_ino=39137529 st_mode=040755 st_nlink=3 st_uid=501 st_gid=20 st_rdev=0 st_size=96 st_atime=1718816778 st_mtime=1718816777 st_ctime=1718816777 st_birthtime=1718816608 st_blksize=4096 st_blocks=0 st_flags=0

Notice that the ctime changed after adding a file to the directory, therefore, on concurrent upload of parts we will see ctime changes of the upload id directory.

Changes -
Disabled ctime checking on the mpu_path stat.
Notice it'll affect all the calling functions to load_multipart() -

1. upload multipart
2. list multipart
3. complete object upload
4. abort object upload

Issues: Fixed #xxx / Gap #xxx

1. Fixed observed in noobaa log as "cancelled due to ctime change" actual upload didn't fail  #7833
2. We should go through the whole NamespaceFS file and try find these concurrency issues that might happen on every stat call.

Testing Instructions:

1. Tab 1 - sudo node src/cmd/nsfs.js --debug=5 2&> mpu.log
2. Tab 2 - node src/tools/s3cat --endpoint http://localhost:6001 --access_key XXX --secret_key YYY --bucket bucket1_name --upload --size $((100*1024)) --part_size 32 --concur 16
   wait for the upload to finish.
3. Tab 1 - cat mpu.log | grep cancel

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• Tests added