Make SYCL backend detection more portable #10958

Job	Run time
clang-format	13s
documentation	19s
codespell	33s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	15m 4s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,macos-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	4m 48s
FPGA_EMU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	23m 40s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icx-cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	17m 22s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 49s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	16m 49s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	10m 3s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icx,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	11m 52s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	6m 3s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	9m 1s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	9m 5s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 4s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 34s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 3s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	12m 33s
HOST,bknd=serial,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 59s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	26m 19s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	17m 12s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	17m 21s
	4h 5m 46s

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