[CI] Build failures with ABSEIL 20240116 and CMAKE 3.30

[marcalff]

Fixes #2998

Changes

Please provide a brief description of the changes here.

• Backported a fix for abseil issue 1536, applied to abseil-cpp 20240116
• Fixed the CI format to ignore *.patch files

For significant contributions please make sure you have completed the following items:

• CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests have been added
• Changes in public API reviewed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.67%. Comparing base (497eaf4) to head (6a908d6).
Report is 99 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #3002      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   87.12%   87.67%   +0.55%     
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  Files         200      190      -10     
  Lines        6109     5853     -256     
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- Hits         5322     5131     -191     
+ Misses        787      722      -65     

see 120 files with indirect coverage changes