fix(xjx): discard message sent by self in redis mq

[sailxjx]

Description

In the original code, a message sent by itself may also be received by itself, which may cause an exception at the receiving end.

Related Issue

TODO

Check List

• merge the latest version source branch/repo, and resolve all the conflicts
• pass style check
• pass all the tests

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Codecov Report

Merging #354 (e98ea53) into main (72c1005) will decrease coverage by 0.85%.
The diff coverage is 56.66%.

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main     #354      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   86.75%   85.89%   -0.86%     
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  Files         513      524      +11     
  Lines       39464    41591    +2127     
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+ Hits        34238    35726    +1488     
- Misses       5226     5865     +639     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	85.89% <56.66%> (-0.86%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
ding/framework/message_queue/tests/test_redis.py	61.53% <20.83%> (+28.20%)	⬆️
.../framework/middleware/functional/data_processor.py	90.90% <50.00%> (-0.21%)	⬇️
ding/framework/parallel.py	84.97% <50.00%> (-1.42%)	⬇️
ding/framework/message_queue/redis.py	77.35% <72.22%> (+39.26%)	⬆️
ding/framework/message_queue/nng.py	92.30% <100.00%> (ø)
ding/framework/middleware/learner.py	87.80% <100.00%> (ø)
.../framework/middleware/tests/test_data_processor.py	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
ding/policy/sac.py	60.50% <0.00%> (-28.12%)	⬇️
ding/utils/data/dataset.py	54.97% <0.00%> (-14.53%)	⬇️
ding/utils/compression_helper.py	93.93% <0.00%> (-6.07%)	⬇️
... and 89 more

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[PaParaZz1]

this modification will conflict with this implementation and its unitttest, please make them compatible.