Control concurrency and add retry action in decommission flow

[imRishN]

Description

TBA [Depends on #5093]

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Gradle Check (Jenkins) Run Completed with:

• RESULT: FAILURE ❌
• URL: https://build.ci.opensearch.org/job/gradle-check/6579/
• CommitID: c63621f
  Please examine the workflow log, locate, and copy-paste the failure below, then iterate to green.
  Is the failure a flaky test unrelated to your change?

[imRishN]

Closing as opened a new one - #5542