attempt to fix debugger

[RiskyMH]

2 different fixes:

1. make vscode debugger work by removing BUN_INSPECT_CONNECT_TO condition to not wait forever (as extension always sets it, bun doesnt wait enough usually)
2. reverts some changes in BunDebugger.cpp so it works in debug.bun.sh again (it seems to still work for vscode)

fixes #15439
fixes maybe #15715

[robobun]

^{Updated 4:08 PM PT - Dec 16th, 2024}

❌ @RiskyMH, your commit 22bdaaf has 10 failures in #8047:

• test/js/web/fetch/fetch.test.ts - timeout on 🍎 13 x64
• test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts - 2 failing on 🍎 14 x64
• test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts - 2 failing on 🍎 13 x64
• test/cli/run/require-cache.test.ts - 1 failing on 🍎 14 x64
• test/cli/run/require-cache.test.ts - 1 failing on 🍎 13 x64
• test/cli/install/registry/bun-install-registry.test.ts - timeout on 🐧 24.04 aarch64
• test/cli/install/registry/bun-install-registry.test.ts - timeout on 🐧 20.04 aarch64
• test/v8/v8.test.ts - 22 failing on 🐧 3.20 aarch64
• test/v8/v8.test.ts - 22 failing on 🐧 3.20 x64
• test/v8/v8.test.ts - 22 failing on 🐧 3.20 x64-baseline
• test/js/node/fs/fs.test.ts - timeout on 🪟 2019 x64
• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-worker-process-exit-async-module.js - code 1 on 🐧 24.04 aarch64
• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-worker-process-exit-async-module.js - code 1 on 🐧 22.04 x64-baseline
• test/cli/install/bun-run.test.ts - 1 failing on 🐧 20.04 aarch64
• test/js/bun/http/serve-body-leak.test.ts - 1 failing on 🪟 2019 x64
• test/js/bun/shell/bunshell.test.ts - 1 failing on 🍎 13 aarch64

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🧪   try this PR locally:

bunx bun-pr 15788

[Jarred-Sumner]

The second thing that defaults it to .shortly should be reverted. We can remove the commented out code though