fix: remove deprecated ssl.wrap_socket, use SSLContext.wrap_socket instead

[pfrayer]

ssl.wrap_socket is deprecated since Python 3.7, and has been removed in Python 3.12: https://docs.python.org/3/whatsnew/3.12.html

Remove the ssl.wrap_socket() function, deprecated in Python 3.7: instead, create a ssl.SSLContext object and call its ssl.SSLContext.wrap_socket method. Any package that still uses ssl.wrap_socket() is broken and insecure. The function neither sends a SNI TLS extension nor validates server hostname. Code is subject to CWE-295: Improper Certificate Validation. (Contributed by Victor Stinner in gh-94199.)

Also in 3.12, setuptools is not installed by default anymore:

Important deprecations, removals or restrictions:
Do not pre-install setuptools in virtual environments created with venv. This means that distutils, setuptools, pkg_resources, and easy_install will no longer available by default; to access these run pip install setuptools in the activated virtual environment.