docs(core): update old recommendations in core README (aws#28535)

`splitArn` is the correct updated version of `parseArn`. It's now
necessary to use `ArnFormat` not a literal string for the format of the
ARN resource for `splitArn` and `formatArn`.

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packages/aws-cdk-lib/README.md

@@ -396,7 +396,7 @@ CloudFormation to re-read the secret.
 ## ARN manipulation
 
 Sometimes you will need to put together or pick apart Amazon Resource Names
-(ARNs). The functions `stack.formatArn()` and `stack.parseArn()` exist for
+(ARNs). The functions `stack.formatArn()` and `stack.splitArn()` exist for
 this purpose.
 
 `formatArn()` can be used to build an ARN from components. It will automatically
@@ -409,12 +409,12 @@ declare const stack: Stack;
 stack.formatArn({
   service: 'lambda',
   resource: 'function',
-  sep: ':',
+  arnFormat: ArnFormat.COLON_RESOURCE_NAME,
   resourceName: 'MyFunction'
 });
 ```
 
-`parseArn()` can be used to get a single component from an ARN. `parseArn()`
+`splitArn()` can be used to get a single component from an ARN. `splitArn()`
 will correctly deal with both literal ARNs and deploy-time values (tokens),
 but in case of a deploy-time value be aware that the result will be another
 deploy-time value which cannot be inspected in the CDK application.
@@ -423,14 +423,13 @@ deploy-time value which cannot be inspected in the CDK application.
 declare const stack: Stack;
 
 // Extracts the function name out of an AWS Lambda Function ARN
-const arnComponents = stack.parseArn(arn, ':');
+const arnComponents = stack.splitArn(arn, ArnFormat.COLON_RESOURCE_NAME);
 const functionName = arnComponents.resourceName;
 ```
 
-Note that depending on the service, the resource separator can be either
-`:` or `/`, and the resource name can be either the 6th or 7th
-component in the ARN. When using these functions, you will need to know
-the format of the ARN you are dealing with.
+Note that the format of the resource separator depends on the service and
+may be any of the values supported by `ArnFormat`. When dealing with these
+functions, it is important to know the format of the ARN you are dealing with.
 
 For an exhaustive list of ARN formats used in AWS, see [AWS ARNs and
 Namespaces](https://docs.aws.amazon.com/general/latest/gr/aws-arns-and-namespaces.html)
@@ -611,7 +610,7 @@ response to the CloudFormation service and handle various error cases.
 Set `serviceToken` to `lambda.functionArn` to use this provider:
 
 ```ts
-const fn = new lambda.Function(this, 'MyProvider', functionProps);
+const fn = new lambda.SingletonFunction(this, 'MyProvider', functionProps);
 
 new CustomResource(this, 'MyResource', {
   serviceToken: fn.functionArn,
@@ -625,7 +624,8 @@ framework designed to implement simple and slim custom resource providers. It
 currently only supports Node.js-based user handlers, represents permissions as raw
 JSON blobs instead of `iam.PolicyStatement` objects, and it does not have
 support for asynchronous waiting (handler cannot exceed the 15min lambda
-timeout).
+timeout). The `CustomResourceProviderRuntime` supports runtime `nodejs12.x`,
+`nodejs14.x`, `nodejs16.x`, `nodejs18.x`.
 
 [`@aws-cdk/core.CustomResourceProvider`]: https://docs.aws.amazon.com/cdk/api/latest/docs/@aws-cdk_core.CustomResourceProvider.html
 
@@ -1096,6 +1096,31 @@ declare const regionTable: CfnMapping;
 regionTable.findInMap(Aws.REGION, 'regionName');
 ```
 
+An optional default value can also be passed to `findInMap`. If either key is not found in the map and the mapping is lazy, `findInMap` will return the default value and not render the mapping.
+If the mapping is not lazy or either key is an unresolved token, the call to `findInMap` will return a token that resolves to 
+`{ "Fn::FindInMap": [ "MapName", "TopLevelKey", "SecondLevelKey", { "DefaultValue": "DefaultValue" } ] }`, and the mapping will be rendered.
+Note that the `AWS::LanguageExtentions` transform is added to enable the default value functionality.
+
+For example, the following code will again not produce anything in the "Mappings" section. The
+call to `findInMap` will be able to resolve the value during synthesis and simply return
+`'Region not found'`.
+
+```ts
+const regionTable = new CfnMapping(this, 'RegionTable', {
+  mapping: {
+    'us-east-1': {
+      regionName: 'US East (N. Virginia)',
+    },
+    'us-east-2': {
+      regionName: 'US East (Ohio)',
+    },
+  },
+  lazy: true,
+});
+
+regionTable.findInMap('us-west-1', 'regionName', 'Region not found');
+```
+
 [cfn-mappings]: https://docs.aws.amazon.com/AWSCloudFormation/latest/UserGuide/mappings-section-structure.html
 
 ### Dynamic References
@@ -1187,6 +1212,13 @@ const stack = new Stack(app, 'StackName', {
 });
 ```
 
+You can also set termination protection with the setter after you've instantiated the stack.
+
+```ts
+const stack = new Stack(app, 'StackName', {});
+stack.terminationProtection = true;
+```
+
 By default, termination protection is disabled.
 
 ### Description
@@ -1245,6 +1277,20 @@ It's possible to synthesize the project with more Resources than the allowed (or
 
 Set the context key `@aws-cdk/core:stackResourceLimit` with the proper value, being 0 for disable the limit of resources.
 
+### Template Indentation
+
+The AWS CloudFormation templates generated by CDK include indentation by default. 
+Indentation makes the templates more readable, but also increases their size, 
+and CloudFormation templates cannot exceed 1MB.
+
+It's possible to reduce the size of your templates by suppressing indentation.
+
+To do this for all templates, set the context key `@aws-cdk/core:suppressTemplateIndentation` to `true`.
+
+To do this for a specific stack, add a `suppressTemplateIndentation: true` property to the 
+stack's `StackProps` parameter. You can also set this property to `false` to override 
+the context key setting.
+
 ## App Context
 
 [Context values](https://docs.aws.amazon.com/cdk/v2/guide/context.html) are key-value pairs that can be associated with an app, stack, or construct.
@@ -1440,6 +1486,10 @@ class MyPlugin implements IPolicyValidationPluginBeta1 {
 }
 ```
 
+In addition to the name, plugins may optionally report their version (`version`
+property ) and a list of IDs of the rules they are going to evaluate (`ruleIds`
+property).
+
 Note that plugins are not allowed to modify anything in the cloud assembly. Any
 attempt to do so will result in synthesis failure.
 
@@ -1452,4 +1502,40 @@ add it to the `postinstall`
 [script](https://docs.npmjs.com/cli/v9/using-npm/scripts) in the `package.json`
 file.
 
+## Annotations
+
+Construct authors can add annotations to constructs to report at three different
+levels: `ERROR`, `WARN`, `INFO`.
+
+Typically warnings are added for things that are important for the user to be
+aware of, but will not cause deployment errors in all cases. Some common
+scenarios are (non-exhaustive list):
+
+- Warn when the user needs to take a manual action, e.g. IAM policy should be
+  added to an referenced resource.
+- Warn if the user configuration might not follow best practices (but is still
+  valid)
+- Warn if the user is using a deprecated API
+
+### Acknowledging Warnings
+
+If you would like to run with `--strict` mode enabled (warnings will throw
+errors) it is possible to `acknowledge` warnings to make the warning go away.
+
+For example, if > 10 IAM managed policies are added to an IAM Group, a warning
+will be created:
+
+```text
+IAM:Group:MaxPoliciesExceeded: You added 11 to IAM Group my-group. The maximum number of managed policies attached to an IAM group is 10.
+```
+
+If you have requested a [quota increase](https://docs.aws.amazon.com/IAM/latest/UserGuide/reference_iam-quotas.html#reference_iam-quotas-entities)
+you may have the ability to add > 10 managed policies which means that this
+warning does not apply to you. You can acknowledge this by `acknowledging` the
+warning by the `id`.
+
+```ts
+Annotations.of(this).acknowledgeWarning('IAM:Group:MaxPoliciesExceeded', 'Account has quota increased to 20');
+```
+
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