ddl, statistics: fix stats meta missing when creating many tables at once

[qw4990]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #38189 close #36004

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

cherry pick #38301

If the stats meta is not inserted after creating the table, we insert it in DumpStatsDeltaToKV(use INSERT INTO ... ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE ...).

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[Rustin170506]

Looks good to me. Thanks! 👍

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Timeline:

• 2023-12-29 06:55:19.075720005 +0000 UTC m=+1808010.112946932: ☑️ agreed by hi-rustin.
• 2023-12-29 07:13:34.556304182 +0000 UTC m=+1809105.593531111: ☑️ agreed by AilinKid.