makefile: update dumpling build options (#41165)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #41165

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #55349

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

after upgrade a dependency in #41111, macOS must turn on cgo to build

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

manually make build_dumpling on macOS

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[wuhuizuo]

/cc @lance6716 @D3Hunter

failure happened in release-6.1 building on fail-point profile

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Timeline:

• 2024-08-21 07:02:06.454883969 +0000 UTC m=+335321.589334091: ☑️ agreed by lance6716.
• 2024-08-21 07:08:25.721282043 +0000 UTC m=+335700.855732164: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.