*: Use strict validation for stale read ts & flashback ts (#57050)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57050

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #56809

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Use strict check for stale read ts & flashback ts to avoid any reading on future ts, which has risk to break the linearizability of async commit and 1PC transactions.

Pending and waiting for tikv/client-go#1484

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
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  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

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• Contains syntax changes
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• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-11-15 03:47:19.834072537 +0000 UTC m=+587202.024941534: ☑️ agreed by cfzjywxk.
• 2024-11-15 06:16:11.058199744 +0000 UTC m=+596133.249068741: ☑️ agreed by qw4990.

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/retest

[MyonKeminta]

/retest