Compatible with TiDB mater (v6.5.0) (#2598)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #2598

What problem does this PR solve?

This pr fix three errors:

• SHARD_ROW_ID_BITS can't work with cluster index
• Write (replace=true) with date type commonhandle may fail to do upsert. because we don't handle the date type correctly when build commonhandle
• random tests need to specify non-cluster index for TiDB mater default to cluster index now.

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Code changes

• Has exported function/method change
• Has exported variable/fields change
• Has interface methods change
• Has persistent data change

Side effects

• Possible performance regression
• Increased code complexity
• Breaking backward compatibility

Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch
• Need to update the documentation
• Need to update the tidb-ansible repository
• Need to be included in the release note

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[shiyuhang0]

/run-all-tests

[shiyuhang0]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: 39ba24b