feat: Raise on invalid 'is_between' and improve error message quality

[ritchie46]

Set up architecture to catch non-sensical/ambiguous queries and raise an error asking for explicit casts.

In direct comparisons <, >, ==, >= and the likes, we already raised. For functions we didn't have the logic implemented yet. This will prevent a lot of trip ups where people think they compare dates, but instead are comparing string ascii values on order, which is never what you want to happen implicitly.

>>> pl.select(pl.lit(2).is_between(pl.lit("11"), pl.lit("33")))
InvalidOperationError: got invalid or ambiguous dtypes: '[dyn int, str, str]' in expression 'is_between'

Consider explicitly casting your input types to resolve ambiguity.

closes #18144