Don't reuse a commissionee device if it has the wrong device id.

[bzbarsky-apple]

Found during investigation of
#15409 but there
may be more problems left in that issue.

If we get into EstablishPASEConnection and find an existing
commissionee for the peer address (which is easy for BLE, where the
peer address is basically a singleton), but the device id does not
match the passed-in one, we should not reuse that device. If we try
to, Commission will fail to find the commissionee device by device id
and fail out.

Problem

See above.

Change overview

See above.

Testing

Tested that the steps from #15409 (comment) no longer result in an error for the second commissioning attempt.

[github-actions]

PR #19141: Size comparison from 1868a88 to 224ca1c

Increases (1 build for linux)

platform	target	config	section	1868a88	224ca1c	change	% change
linux	chip-tool-no-interactive-ipv6only	arm64	(read only)	9345492	9345524	32	0.0
			.text	7372676	7372708	32	0.0

Full report (30 builds for cc13x2_26x2, cyw30739, efr32, esp32, k32w, linux, mbed, nrfconnect, p6, telink)

platform	target	config	section	1868a88	224ca1c	change	% change
cc13x2_26x2	all-clusters-app	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	648467	648467	0	0.0
			(read/write)	158988	158988	0	0.0
			.bss	74668	74668	0	0.0
			.data	3404	3404	0	0.0
			.rodata	84531	84531	0	0.0
			.text	563704	563704	0	0.0
	all-clusters-minimal-app	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	615347	615347	0	0.0
			(read/write)	158160	158160	0	0.0
			.bss	73900	73900	0	0.0
			.data	3344	3344	0	0.0
			.rodata	73915	73915	0	0.0
			.text	541200	541200	0	0.0
	lock-ftd	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	680623	680623	0	0.0
			(read/write)	162288	162288	0	0.0
			.bss	72692	72692	0	0.0
			.data	3268	3268	0	0.0
			.rodata	96687	96687	0	0.0
			.text	583456	583456	0	0.0
	lock-mtd	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	630023	630023	0	0.0
			(read/write)	145812	145812	0	0.0
			.bss	68428	68428	0	0.0
			.data	3268	3268	0	0.0
			.rodata	96567	96567	0	0.0
			.text	532968	532968	0	0.0
	pump-app	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	663647	663647	0	0.0
			(read/write)	180176	180176	0	0.0
			.bss	72836	72836	0	0.0
			.data	3300	3300	0	0.0
			.rodata	85703	85703	0	0.0
			.text	577460	577460	0	0.0
	pump-controller-app	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	654975	654975	0	0.0
			(read/write)	188960	188960	0	0.0
			.bss	72948	72948	0	0.0
			.data	3264	3264	0	0.0
			.rodata	83895	83895	0	0.0
			.text	570596	570596	0	0.0
	shell	LP_CC2652R7	(read only)	641482	641482	0	0.0
			(read/write)	154544	154544	0	0.0
			.bss	77020	77020	0	0.0
			.data	3408	3408	0	0.0
			.rodata	81522	81522	0	0.0
			.text	559724	559724	0	0.0
cyw30739	light	cyw930739m2evb_01	(read/write)	601886	601886	0	0.0
			.app_xip_area	460912	460912	0	0.0
			.bss	83912	83912	0	0.0
			.data	744	744	0	0.0
			.rodata	0	0	0	0.0
			.text	112	112	0	0.0
	lock	cyw930739m2evb_01	(read/write)	597986	597986	0	0.0
			.app_xip_area	456884	456884	0	0.0
			.bss	84072	84072	0	0.0
			.data	712	712	0	0.0
			.rodata	0	0	0	0.0
			.text	112	112	0	0.0
	ota-requestor-no-progress-logging	cyw930739m2evb_01	(read/write)	596634	596634	0	0.0
			.app_xip_area	456656	456656	0	0.0
			.bss	83044	83044	0	0.0
			.data	620	620	0	0.0
			.rodata	0	0	0	0.0
			.text	112	112	0	0.0
efr32	lighting-app	BRD4161A	(read only)	915840	915840	0	0.0
			(read/write)	133280	133280	0	0.0
			.bss	131176	131176	0	0.0
			.data	2100	2100	0	0.0
			.text	915832	915832	0	0.0
		BRD4161A+rpc	(read only)	950068	950068	0	0.0
			(read/write)	149968	149968	0	0.0
			.bss	147664	147664	0	0.0
			.data	2304	2304	0	0.0
			.text	950060	950060	0	0.0
		BRD4161A+rs911x	(read only)	787908	787908	0	0.0
			(read/write)	129496	129496	0	0.0
			.bss	127396	127396	0	0.0
			.data	2100	2100	0	0.0
			.text	787900	787900	0	0.0
	lock-app	BRD4161A+wf200	(read only)	955220	955220	0	0.0
			(read/write)	128332	128332	0	0.0
			.bss	126260	126260	0	0.0
			.data	2072	2072	0	0.0
			.text	955212	955212	0	0.0
	window-app	BRD4161A	(read only)	900760	900760	0	0.0
			(read/write)	133344	133344	0	0.0
			.bss	131248	131248	0	0.0
			.data	2096	2096	0	0.0
			.text	900752	900752	0	0.0
esp32	all-clusters-app	c3devkit	(read only)	1005296	1005296	0	0.0
			(read/write)	1480178	1480178	0	0.0
			.dram0.bss	69232	69232	0	0.0
			.dram0.data	14656	14656	0	0.0
			.flash.rodata	210864	210864	0	0.0
			.flash.text	1005296	1005296	0	0.0
			.iram0.text	62954	62954	0	0.0
		m5stack	(read only)	1060475	1060475	0	0.0
			(read/write)	482380	482380	0	0.0
			.dram0.bss	74752	74752	0	0.0
			.dram0.data	34208	34208	0	0.0
			.flash.rodata	241424	241424	0	0.0
			.flash.text	1055091	1055091	0	0.0
			.iram0.text	123267	123267	0	0.0
k32w	light	k32w061+release	(read/write)	657796	657796	0	0.0
			.bss	69768	69768	0	0.0
			.data	2020	2020	0	0.0
			.text	580208	580208	0	0.0
	lock	k32w061+release	(read/write)	716812	716812	0	0.0
			.bss	70192	70192	0	0.0
			.data	1988	1988	0	0.0
			.text	638832	638832	0	0.0
linux	chip-tool-no-interactive-ipv6only	arm64	(read only)	9345492	9345524	32	0.0
			(read/write)	662961	662961	0	0.0
			.bss	42305	42305	0	0.0
			.data	1176	1176	0	0.0
			.data.rel.ro	600832	600832	0	0.0
			.dynamic	528	528	0	0.0
			.got	14824	14824	0	0.0
			.init	24	24	0	0.0
			.init_array	192	192	0	0.0
			.rodata	458652	458652	0	0.0
			.text	7372676	7372708	32	0.0
	thermostat-no-ble	arm64	(read only)	2366668	2366668	0	0.0
			(read/write)	177601	177601	0	0.0
			.bss	87969	87969	0	0.0
			.data	1528	1528	0	0.0
			.data.rel.ro	80288	80288	0	0.0
			.dynamic	528	528	0	0.0
			.got	4800	4800	0	0.0
			.init	24	24	0	0.0
			.init_array	384	384	0	0.0
			.rodata	148828	148828	0	0.0
			.text	1988064	1988064	0	0.0
mbed	lock-app	CY8CPROTO_062_4343W+release	(read only)	6224	6224	0	0.0
			(read/write)	2425560	2425560	0	0.0
			.bss	202652	202652	0	0.0
			.data	5880	5880	0	0.0
			.text	1388204	1388204	0	0.0
nrfconnect	all-clusters-app	nrf52840dk_nrf52840	(read/write)	1187763	1187763	0	0.0
			bss	141297	141297	0	0.0
			rodata	152892	152892	0	0.0
			text	814712	814712	0	0.0
	all-clusters-minimal-app	nrf52840dk_nrf52840	(read/write)	1136547	1136547	0	0.0
			bss	140526	140526	0	0.0
			rodata	129460	129460	0	0.0
			text	787756	787756	0	0.0
p6	all-clusters-app	default	(read/write)	2541776	2541776	0	0.0
			.bss	137192	137192	0	0.0
			.data	2808	2808	0	0.0
			.text	1500040	1500040	0	0.0
	all-clusters-minimal-app	default	(read/write)	2487744	2487744	0	0.0
			.bss	136416	136416	0	0.0
			.data	2752	2752	0	0.0
			.text	1446008	1446008	0	0.0
	light-app	default	(read/write)	2422144	2422144	0	0.0
			.bss	129520	129520	0	0.0
			.data	2608	2608	0	0.0
			.text	1380408	1380408	0	0.0
	lock-app	default	(read/write)	2440200	2440200	0	0.0
			.bss	129336	129336	0	0.0
			.data	2576	2576	0	0.0
			.text	1398464	1398464	0	0.0
telink	light-switch-app	tlsr9518adk80d	(read/write)	780760	780760	0	0.0
			bss	70584	70584	0	0.0
			noinit	40416	40416	0	0.0
			text	552132	552132	0	0.0
	lighting-app	tlsr9518adk80d	(read/write)	800804	800804	0	0.0
			bss	70844	70844	0	0.0
			noinit	40416	40416	0	0.0
			text	568874	568874	0	0.0