gh-118926: Deferred reference counting GC changes for free threading #1414

Job	Run time
Interpreter (Debug)	6m 35s
i686-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Debug)	18m 34s
Free-Threaded (Debug)	2m 3s
i686-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Release)	22m 0s
x86_64-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Debug)	17m 44s
x86_64-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Release)	21m 14s
aarch64-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Debug)	5m 24s
aarch64-pc-windows-msvc/msvc (Release)	5m 58s
x86_64-apple-darwin/clang (Debug)	12m 31s
x86_64-apple-darwin/clang (Release)	16m 12s
aarch64-apple-darwin/clang (Debug)	8m 44s
aarch64-apple-darwin/clang (Release)	14m 54s
x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu/gcc (Debug)	2m 6s
x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu/gcc (Release)	2m 37s
x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu/clang (Debug)	2m 44s
x86_64-unknown-linux-gnu/clang (Release)	25s
aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu/gcc (Debug)	3m 57s
aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu/gcc (Release)	5m 8s
aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu/clang (Debug)	4m 51s
aarch64-unknown-linux-gnu/clang (Release)	2m 37s
	2h 56m 18s

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