reduce wheel build verbosity, narrow deprecation warning filter

[jameslamb]

Description

Proposes some small changes I've taken as follow-ups from previous work here.

• Add support for Python 3.12, update Kafka dependencies to 2.5.x #16745 filtered out all linter warnings about uses of datetime.utcnow() ... this PR limits that to only the warnings observed from botocore (so that the linter will helpfully warn us about such uses directly in cudf)
  • ref Add support for Python 3.12, update Kafka dependencies to 2.5.x #16745 (comment)
• reduces the verbosity of logs for wheel builds (-vvv to -v)
  • similar to reduce pip verbosity in wheel builds cugraph#4651

Notes for Reviewers

This is intentionally targeted at 24.12. No need to rush this into 24.10 before code freeze.

How I tested this

locally in docker (click me)

docker run \
    --rm \
    --gpus 1 \
    -v $(pwd):/opt/work \
    -w /opt/work \
    -it rapidsai/citestwheel:latest \
    bash

pip install \
    --prefer-binary \
    'cudf-cu12[test]==24.10.*,>=0.0.0a0' \
    'flask' \
    'flask-cors' \
    'moto>=4.0.8' \
    'boto3' \
    's3fs>=2022.3.0'

cd ./python/cudf

pytest \
    cudf/tests/test_s3.py

Checklist

• I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• New or existing tests cover these changes.
• The documentation is up to date with these changes.

[vyasr]

/merge