This commit fixes reduxjs#965

The essence of the problem is that getDerivedStateFromProps is called when the incoming props OR incoming local state changes. So we cannot store anything in state that is needed in shouldComponentUpdate.

This commit splits up the tracking of incoming props, incoming store state changes, and removes getDerivedStateFromProps and the usage of local state to store any information.

Instead, local state is used as a flag solely to track whether the incoming store state has changed.

Since derived props are needed in shouldComponentUpdate, it is generated there and then compared to the previous version of derived props.

If forceUpdate() is called, this bypasses sCU, and so a check in render() compares the props that should have been passed to sCU to those passed to render(). If they are different, it generates them just-in-time.

To summarize:
1) shouldComponentUpdate is ONLY used to process changes to incoming props
2) runUpdater (renamed to triggerUpdateOnStoreStateChange) checks to see if the store state has changed, and stores the state, then updates the counter in local state in order to trigger a new sCU call to re-generate derived state.

Because of these changes, getDerivedStateFromProps and the polyfill are both removed.

All tests pass on my machine, but there is at least 1 side effects to the new design:

 - Many of the tests pass state unchanged to props, and pass this to child components. With these changes, the two updates are processed separately. Props changes are processed first, and then state changes are processed.

I updated the affected tests to show that there are "in-between" states where the state and props are inconsistent and mapStateToProps is called with these changes. If the old behavior is desired, that would require another redesign, I suspect.

merge in testing

DO NOT REMOVE PLEASE TIM

This reverts commit eb960c4, reversing
changes made to b255a46.