fix NODE_OPTIONS env forwarding (#11587)

I got this error when executing `Run Dev Server` on the VScode

```
api | Waiting for the debugger to disconnect...
api | node:events:497
api |       throw er; // Unhandled 'error' event
api |       ^
api | 
api | Error: spawn Studio ENOENT
api |     at ChildProcess._handle.onexit (node:internal/child_process:286:19)
api |     at onErrorNT (node:internal/child_process:484:16)
api |     at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:82:21)
api | Emitted 'error' event on ChildProcess instance at:
api |     at ChildProcess._handle.onexit (node:internal/child_process:292:12)
api |     at onErrorNT (node:internal/child_process:484:16)
api |     at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:82:21) {
api |   errno: -2,
api |   code: 'ENOENT',
api |   syscall: 'spawn Studio',
api |   path: 'Studio',
api |   spawnargs: [
api |     'Code.app/Contents/Resources/app/extensions/ms-vscode.js-debug/src/bootloader.js  --inspect-publish-uid=http --enable-source-maps',
api |     'yarn',
api |     'nodemon',
api |     '--quiet',
api |     '--watch',
api |     '/Users/tim/Workspace/src/github.com/daangn/activity-badge-admin/redwood.toml',
api |     '--exec',
api |     'yarn rw-api-server-watch       --port 8911       --debug-port 18911       | rw-log-formatter'
api |   ]
api | }
```

Because the VSCode debugger injects this env variable,

```
 --require "/Applications/Visual Studio Code.app/Contents/Resources/app/extensions/ms-vscode.js-debug/src/bootloader.js"  --inspect-publish-uid=http
```

But not escaped correctly

```
yarn cross-env NODE_ENV=development NODE_OPTIONS="--require "/Applications/Visual Studio Code.app/Contents/Resources/app/extensions/ms-vscode.js-debug/src/bootloader.js"  --inspect-publish-uid=http --enable-source-maps"   yarn nodemon     --quiet     --watch "/Users/tim/Workspace/src/github.com/daangn/activity-badge-admin/redwood.toml"     --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch       --port 8911       --debug-port 18911       | rw-log-formatter" exited with code 1
```

---------

Co-authored-by: Josh GM Walker <56300765+Josh-Walker-GM@users.noreply.github.com>

.changesets/11587.md

@@ -0,0 +1,36 @@
+- fix `NODE_OPTIONS` env forwarding (#11587) by @cometkim
+
+This change updates how we pass through any `NODE_OPTIONS` when you run the API side development server with `yarn rw dev`. Previously there may have been issues like unescaped spaces in paths which would have produced errors like:
+
+```
+api | node:events:497
+api |       throw er; // Unhandled 'error' event
+api |       ^
+api |
+api | Error: spawn space.js --enable-source-maps ENOENT
+api |     at ChildProcess._handle.onexit (node:internal/child_process:286:19)
+api |     at onErrorNT (node:internal/child_process:484:16)
+api |     at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:82:21)
+api | Emitted 'error' event on ChildProcess instance at:
+api |     at ChildProcess._handle.onexit (node:internal/child_process:292:12)
+api |     at onErrorNT (node:internal/child_process:484:16)
+api |     at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:82:21) {
+api |   errno: -2,
+api |   code: 'ENOENT',
+api |   syscall: 'spawn space.js --enable-source-maps',
+api |   path: 'space.js --enable-source-maps',
+api |   spawnargs: [
+api |     'yarn',
+api |     'nodemon',
+api |     '--quiet',
+api |     '--watch',
+api |     '/Users/jgmw/Development/redwood/rw-test/node_options_fix/redwood.toml',
+api |     '--exec',
+api |     'yarn rw-api-server-watch       --port 8911       --debug-port 18911       | rw-log-formatter'
+api |   ]
+api | }
+api |
+api | Node.js v20.17.0
+```
+
+Now these sort of error should no longer occur.

packages/cli/src/commands/__tests__/dev.test.js

@@ -121,8 +121,10 @@ describe('yarn rw dev', () => {
         // test environments (vite sets this in their vite-ecosystem-ci tests)
         .replace(/--max-old-space-size=\d+\s/, ''),
     ).toEqual(
-      'yarn cross-env NODE_ENV=development NODE_OPTIONS="--enable-source-maps" yarn nodemon --quiet --watch "/mocked/project/redwood.toml" --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch --port 8911 --debug-port 18911 | rw-log-formatter"',
+      'yarn nodemon --quiet --watch "/mocked/project/redwood.toml" --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch --port 8911 --debug-port 18911 | rw-log-formatter"',
     )
+    expect(apiCommand.env.NODE_ENV).toEqual('development')
+    expect(apiCommand.env.NODE_OPTIONS).toContain('--enable-source-maps')
 
     expect(generateCommand.command).toEqual('yarn rw-gen-watch')
   })
@@ -166,8 +168,10 @@ describe('yarn rw dev', () => {
         // test environments (vite sets this in their vite-ecosystem-ci tests)
         .replace(/--max-old-space-size=\d+\s/, ''),
     ).toEqual(
-      'yarn cross-env NODE_ENV=development NODE_OPTIONS="--enable-source-maps" yarn nodemon --quiet --watch "/mocked/project/redwood.toml" --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch --port 8911 --debug-port 18911 | rw-log-formatter"',
+      'yarn nodemon --quiet --watch "/mocked/project/redwood.toml" --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch --port 8911 --debug-port 18911 | rw-log-formatter"',
     )
+    expect(apiCommand.env.NODE_ENV).toEqual('development')
+    expect(apiCommand.env.NODE_OPTIONS).toContain('--enable-source-maps')
 
     expect(generateCommand.command).toEqual('yarn rw-gen-watch')
   })

packages/cli/src/commands/devHandler.js

@@ -179,15 +179,18 @@ export const handler = async ({
     api: {
       name: 'api',
       command: [
-        `yarn cross-env NODE_ENV=development NODE_OPTIONS="${getDevNodeOptions()}"`,
-        '  yarn nodemon',
-        '    --quiet',
-        `    --watch "${redwoodConfigPath}"`,
-        '    --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch',
-        `      --port ${apiAvailablePort}`,
-        `      ${getApiDebugFlag()}`,
-        '      | rw-log-formatter"',
+        'yarn nodemon',
+        '  --quiet',
+        `  --watch "${redwoodConfigPath}"`,
+        '  --exec "yarn rw-api-server-watch',
+        `    --port ${apiAvailablePort}`,
+        `    ${getApiDebugFlag()}`,
+        '    | rw-log-formatter"',
       ].join(' '),
+      env: {
+        NODE_ENV: 'development',
+        NODE_OPTIONS: getDevNodeOptions(),
+      },
       prefixColor: 'cyan',
       runWhen: () => fs.existsSync(rwjsPaths.api.src),
     },