Dataframe view update and blueprint API (part 3): use the new query object for column visibility

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What

This PR wires the column visibility code to the new query object, and cleans up the old code and related blueprint object. At this point the dataframe view is in this weird spot where the old ui is used for everything but column visibility.

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Part of a series to address #6896, #7498, and #7494

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