refactor(ds): wait for ds poll events before marking actor as ready

[NathanFlurry]

Fixes RVT-4439

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RVT-4439 Use Traefik poll events to wait for actor create to finish

[NathanFlurry]

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• chore: write release script #1657
• ci: build & upload binaries #1658
• ci: remove docker arm targets for containers that rely on fdb #1656
• fix(pegboard): fix clients connected without active workflow #1655
• fix(cluster): use s3 endpoint without trailing slash for s3 region map #1654
• chore(cluster): upgrade traefik to 3.2.1 #1653
• fix(pegboard): automatically disconnect clients with complete pegboard workflows #1652
• fix(pegboard): automatically remove actor directory on cleanup #1651
• fix(pegboard): fix load balancing for isolates #1648
• fix(pegboard): handle conflicts for client events gracefully #1647
• chore(cluster): remove dns records when pruning servers #1646
• fix(mm): serialize RIVET_API_ENDPOINT without trailing slash #1645
• refactor(ds): wait for ds poll events before marking actor as ready #1644 👈 (View in Graphite)
• chore(api-status): add check for actor isolates #1642
• chore(cluster): remove default provisioning config #1643
• main

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