chore(rome_*):reduce parking_lot usage

[IWANABETHATGUY]

Summary

1. Since we have upgraded rust-toolchain to 1.62.0 stable which has been stabilized the new Mutex api.
   Also, it is faster than parking_lot in Linux platform https://blog.rust-lang.org/2022/06/30/Rust-1.62.0.html#thinner-faster-mutexes-on-linux.
   So, we could reduce the parking-lot crate usage to speed up our compile-time a little.

Test Plan

1. cargo test

[xunilrj]

Will be interesting to see the differences.

[IWANABETHATGUY]

I don't benchmark this pull request, You could see the detailed benchmark made by rust core team rust-lang/rust#95035 (comment)

[IWANABETHATGUY]

This pull request more likely to be a compile-time improvement

[ematipico]

I know it's annoying, but each unwrap should be documented with a // SAFETY comment

[IWANABETHATGUY]

The const constructor of {Mutex, Condvar, RwLock} would be stable until 1.63, https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/97791/files#diff-3ec0c54e5f945521d425d023283b935edaa5c16fe7e2c0f675b07f35e65f639bR125, So i am going to close this pr for now