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Refactor Apple `target_abi`

This was bundled together with `Arch`, which complicated a few code paths and meant we had to do more string matching than necessary.

CC `@BlackHoleFox` as you've worked on the Apple target spec before

Related: Is there a reason why `Target`/`TargetOptions` use `StaticCow` for so many things, instead of an enum with defined values (and perhaps a catch-all case for custom target json files)? Tagging `@Nilstrieb,` as you might know?