Auto merge of #79727 - tmiasko:8bit-rwu, r=lcnr

Compress RWU from at least 32 bits to 4 bits

The liveness uses a mixed representation of RWUs based on the
observation that most of them have invalid reader and invalid
writer. The packed variant uses 32 bits and unpacked 96 bits.
Unpacked data contains reader live node and writer live node.

Since live nodes are used only to determine their validity,
RWUs can always be stored in a packed form with four bits for
each: reader bit, writer bit, used bit, and one extra padding
bit to simplify packing and unpacking operations.