Update node from 16 to 17

[thomasetter]

This seems to be the last version which "just works" by bumping the version number.

18 fails with

     Running `target/debug/wasm-bindgen-test-runner /home/runner/work/wasm-bindgen/wasm-bindgen/target/wasm32-unknown-unknown/debug/deps/wasm-3858e35c736746aa.wasm`
                                                  
Set timeout to 20 seconds...
Executing bindgen...                              
node: bad option: --experimental-wasm-reftypes
error: test failed, to rerun pass `--test wasm`

Caused by:
  process didn't exit successfully: `cargo run -p wasm-bindgen-cli --bin wasm-bindgen-test-runner -- /home/runner/work/wasm-bindgen/wasm-bindgen/target/wasm32-unknown-unknown/debug/deps/wasm-3858e35c736746aa.wasm` (exit status: 9)
note: test exited abnormally; to see the full output pass --nocapture to the harness.
                                                  
Error: Process completed with exit code 9.

https://github.com/thomasetter/wasm-bindgen/actions/runs/6611564031/job/17955697825?pr=4

[ranile]

I would rather not use a non-lts version of nodejs

[thomasetter]

Sounds good, #3666 brings it to 20, sorry for the noise.