fix: Spiderpool GC incorrect IP address during statefulset Pod scale up/down, causing IP conflict

[weizhoublue]

robot cherry pick PR #3778 from ty-dc,to branch release-v1.0, action https://github.com/spidernet-io/spiderpool/actions/runs/10454536885 , commits a5a29e1

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 81.28%. Comparing base (ac18f55) to head (0fe1c88).
Report is 4 commits behind head on release-v1.0.

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+ Coverage         81.16%   81.28%   +0.11%     
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  Lines              4391     4408      +17     
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+ Hits               3564     3583      +19     
+ Misses              670      669       -1     
+ Partials            157      156       -1     

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unittests	81.28% <100.00%> (+0.11%)	⬆️

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Files	Coverage Δ
...orkloadendpointmanager/workloadendpoint_manager.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 1 file with indirect coverage changes

[weizhoublue]

https://github.com/spidernet-io/spiderpool/actions/runs/10454544226/job/28947765944?pr=3902

Summarizing 1 Failure:
  [FAIL] test reliability reliability test table [It] Successfully run a pod during the coreDns is restarting [reliability, R00005]
  /home/runner/work/spiderpool/spiderpool/test/e2e/reliability/reliability_test.go:69

[weizhoublue]

https://github.com/spidernet-io/spiderpool/actions/runs/10454544226/job/28947765944?pr=3902

Summarizing 1 Failure:
  [FAIL] test reliability reliability test table [It] Successfully run a pod during the coreDns is restarting [reliability, R00005]
  /home/runner/work/spiderpool/spiderpool/test/e2e/reliability/reliability_test.go:69

debug this, open an issue if necessary

[ty-dc]

https://github.com/spidernet-io/spiderpool/actions/runs/10454544226/job/28947765944?pr=3902

Summarizing 1 Failure:
  [FAIL] test reliability reliability test table [It] Successfully run a pod during the coreDns is restarting [reliability, R00005]
  /home/runner/work/spiderpool/spiderpool/test/e2e/reliability/reliability_test.go:69

debug this, open an issue if necessary

yes, in progress