Improve Duster glob support using Symfony finder

[driftingly]

This PR updates the Duster's wildcard support for include/exclude configurations.

Previously a configuration using a wildcard glob would not work:

{
    "exclude": [
        "tests/**/Fixture"
    ]
}

This PR runs these patterns through Symfony's finder and falls back to the previous glob method.

[mattstauffer]

@driftingly This bumps us from Tlint 8 to Tlint 9, which changes PHP requirement from 8.0 to 8.1, so this'll need to be a minor or even possibly major release, can't remember which we're allowed to increase dependencies in.

[driftingly]

@mattstauffer Duster already requires PHP 8.1 since Pint 1.6+ requires 8.1 and was the reason we went from 1.x to 2.x.
I did release this as a minor because there were a lot of other dependency updates.

[benholmen]

FYI this PR caused a regression for me. My duster.json file was:

{
    "include": [],
    "exclude": ["bootstrap/*", "app/Http/Controllers/Auth/*"]
}

but after upgrading v2.6.0 => v2.7.1, I started getting lint errors on bootstrap.php and an Auth controller.

I updated my config to the following and it worked:

{
    "include": [],
    "exclude": ["bootstrap", "app/Http/Controllers/Auth"]
}