optimize: optimize derivative product check base on mysql

[slievrly]

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

optimize derivative product check base on mysql

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

fixes #6037

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #6044 (3cbca46) into develop (c829e73) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 31.25%.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage      48.88%   48.85%   -0.03%     
  Complexity      4186     4186              
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  Files            793      793              
  Lines          28028    28039      +11     
  Branches        3423     3426       +3     
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- Hits           13702    13699       -3     
- Misses         12897    12908      +11     
- Partials        1429     1432       +3     

Files	Coverage Δ
...datasource/exec/mysql/MySQLUpdateJoinExecutor.java	77.07% <100.00%> (ø)
...n/java/io/seata/rm/datasource/DataSourceProxy.java	54.34% <29.03%> (-5.50%)	⬇️

... and 2 files with indirect coverage changes

[funky-eyes]

LGTM