feat: support server side session

[youngsofun]

feat:

1. try to access /v1/session/login to get session token and refresh token when init APIClient. it got 404, do not use session token in the following request
2. uses session token when sending and polling query. it session token expired, renew token and retry
   4. upload_stage accept a Reader, so it can not retry, check for expired and renew before request.
3. call /v1/session/logout when drop APIClient
4. support cookie to carry session id with each request, and even if session_token is not used.
5. DSN add param session_token=enable|disable, disable by default now, may changed to enable by default after stable
6. DSN add param login=enable|disable, enabled by default, so user can choose to disable if only one query in session
7. after this pr, temp table is available, require databend server version >= 1.2.655 , but since heartbeat is not implemented yet, temp table will be cleaned up after session is idle for 4 hours, it is recommended to drop temp table after use, vacuum is used incase of forget or fail to drop it

fix:

1. fix auth header when retry request. bug: call self.auth.wrap(builder) when retry not work as what we expect. #477
2. no sleep when retry fro start query

refactors:

1. reclassify Errors and add Error::WithContext
2. unify retry policy
3. use parking_lock instead of tokio lock
4. make reading local jwt token file sync, so building request is sync

others:

allow license Unicode-3.0

[youngsofun]

cc @everpcpc @sundy-li plz review

[everpcpc]

DSN param session_token is not supported yet?

[youngsofun]

DSN param session_token is not supported yet?

supported now

[youngsofun]

waiting for databendlabs/databend#16786 to merge

[youngsofun]

@everpcpc do you need to review again?