Upgrade to docker compose v2

[devinrsmith]

This upgrades the gradle-docker-compose-plugin to support docker compose v2 by default. The important release notes are https://github.com/avast/gradle-docker-compose-plugin/releases/tag/0.17.0, although we are updating to the latest 0.17.6. Some manual configuration of dockerCompose was needed to workaround avast/gradle-docker-compose-plugin#393.

Additionally, this upgrades all of our docker-compose.yml files to be proper v2 files by removing the version. The docker compose version is only relevant for docker-compose (v1). See https://docs.docker.com/compose/intro/history/ for clarification. This was discovered based on the warning from the docker compose process, which would otherwise warn:

> Task :Integrations:composeBuild
time="2024-04-03T12:09:28-07:00" level=warning msg="/home/devin/dev/deephaven/deephaven-core/Integrations/docker-compose.yml: `version` is obsolete"

Fixes #3554
Fixes #5320

[devinrsmith]

I've noted release notes / documentation needed. This is mainly wrt the change to docker compose v2 files.

[devinrsmith]

It may be time to do a pass on some of the stuff we have in repo, but don't test or run. For example, I don't know if any of the debezium stuff is still valid.

[niloc132]

Approved - I'd still like to see an appropriate place to list you must have docker compose v2 installed to do development and testing with dhc, either here or in the docs repo.

[devinrsmith]

Approved - I'd still like to see an appropriate place to list you must have docker compose v2 installed to do development and testing with dhc, either here or in the docs repo.

We do have this in our README:

Built from source

Users who wish to modify source code and contribute to the project should build Deephaven from source. For complete instructions, see How to build Deephaven from source.

Building and running Deephaven requires a few software packages.

Package	Version	OS	Required/Recommended
git	^2.25.0	All	Required
java	>=11, <20	All	Required
docker	^20.10.8	All	Required
docker compose	^2	All	Recommended
Windows	10 (OS build 20262 or higher)	Only Windows	Required
WSL	2	Only Windows	Required

[deephaven-internal]

Labels indicate documentation is required. Issues for documentation have been opened:

Community: deephaven/deephaven-docs-community#183