Fix intermediate bond values again

[fonsp]

This will fix #1891 again which got reopened by #2399

This PR actually contains two fixes! So now it's superfixed!!!

1. The heuristic from New heuristic to skip intermediate bond values #1892 was updated to ignore patches related to status_tree.
2. I continued Performance: throttled status update loop impacts performance on large notebooks #2978 and made sure that the status tree sync loop is also throttled at the start of the reactive run. Too many intermediate bond values #1891 was happening because of the initial status updates.

This time the fix also includes an end-to-end test with puppeteer :)

[github-actions]

Try this Pull Request!

Open Julia and type:

julia> import Pkg
julia> Pkg.activate(temp=true)
julia> Pkg.add(url="https://github.com/fonsp/Pluto.jl", rev="fix-intermediate-bonds-values-again")
julia> using Pluto

[fonsp]

oops some last changes in fb2f187