apacheGH-43048: [JAVA] Fix IndexOutOfBoundsException message by repor…

…ting index correctly (apache#43049)

The detailed message for IndexOutOfBoundsException should report the srcIndex that was previously passed to the isOutOfBounds() check

Fixes apache#43048
* GitHub Issue: apache#43048

Authored-by: Alexandra Wang <alex.wang@dremio.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>

java/memory/memory-core/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/memory/ArrowBuf.java

@@ -954,7 +954,7 @@ public void setBytes(long index, ArrowBuf src, long srcIndex, long length) {
     if (isOutOfBounds(srcIndex, length, src.capacity())) {
       throw new IndexOutOfBoundsException(
           String.format(
-              "index: %d, length: %d (expected: range(0, %d))", index, length, src.capacity()));
+              "index: %d, length: %d (expected: range(0, %d))", srcIndex, length, src.capacity()));
     }
     if (length != 0) {
       // copy length bytes of data from src ArrowBuf starting at