[bazel] Bump version and deps

[keith]

This updates bazel as well as the deps that were required to be updated in order to support the newer version of bazel.

Fixes #2619

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.68%. Comparing base (497eaf4) to head (f2b60b4).
Report is 78 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main    #2679      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   87.12%   87.68%   +0.56%     
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  Files         200      190      -10     
  Lines        6109     5851     -258     
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- Hits         5322     5130     -192     
+ Misses        787      721      -66     

see 77 files with indirect coverage changes

[marcalff]

LGTM, thanks for the fix.

To be honest, bazel just feel like a black whole to otel-cpp maintainers currently,
which makes it challenging to maintain, so this PR is all the more appreciated.

Please add comments about apple_support and rules_apple, it will go a very long way to help us.

[marcalff]

Don't pay attention to CI breaks, this is a general github issue.

[lalitb]

LGTM. with nit comment on documenting the abseil requirement.

[keith]

addressed all the comments here!

[keith]

Thanks all!