feat(xo-server,xo-web): disable HA during Rolling Pool Update

[pdonias]

See #5711

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• PR reference the relevant issue (e.g. Fixes #007 or See xoa-support#42)
• if UI changes, a screenshot has been added to the PR
• documentation updated
• CHANGELOG.unreleased.md:
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  • list of packages to release updated (${name} v${new version})
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  • if xo-server API changes, the corresponding test has been added to/updated on xo-server-test
  • at least manual testing

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